“the ordinary days have a way of lulling us into believing there isn’t any urgency to them…” (john pavlovitz)
we chose to binge-watch a favorite show’s entire season, under the quilt with snacks by our side and dogga at our feet. because there is this – living. and so we chose to stay still together, our socked feet nuzzled. we chose to go nowhere, to link arms sitting against the pillows in bed, to watch the afternoon sun wane through the window and turn to night. minutes and hours ticked by – an ordinary day embracing right now.
for there is – after all – an urgency.
an urgency of loving. to tell others around us they are loved. to unflinchingly gaze at each other – our partners – to speak the words every beloved wishes to hear, to catch your breath, to quietly hold hands.
an urgency of standing in the fire with each other. in the middle of any storm, any wound, any challenge, any anything – and to not close off, to not be aloof, to not ignore the pain, to hold healing together.
an urgency to do. to speak, to stand up, to fight back, to forgive, to create, to tear down. there is an urgency to recognize the driving force, to gather the tools, to seek the empty spaces, the vessels, the air, the canvasses to fill, to touch the imperative.
an urgency to breathe it all in. to go, to see, to voice, to hear, to taste, to touch – every microscopic bit of it. to immerse, to be one in it all, to be inert to the point of boredom, to move frenetically.
it is today. it is right now. we are only assured of this very moment, this very place. in feeling it – really feeling it – i hope that – for this moment – every other place disappears.
for there is an urgency in limited limitless. and so, in each and every heartbeat.
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March 24, 2025 at 8:53 am
The title of your commentary brought to mind our “dicky bladders”. Sorry!
But yes, all of us should at least try to enjoy all the little things (but huge in our spirits) that make us alive. Great post, Kerri! We send you our love!
B & c
March 27, 2025 at 8:16 am
You made me laugh aloud! But yes – the little things…
Many hugs back to you both!! xoxo